Relationship red flags and the signs of a toxic relationship
Intense isn't the same as intimate. The early red flags, the later ones, how to tell a toxic relationship from a rough patch, what coercive control looks like, and what to do next.
Safety and privacy guides
Guides to staying safe and private when you use an adult directory: reading profiles, first contact, scams and reporting.
Sexual health testing and how to talk about it
How often to get tested, where to go for free or low-cost checks, what a test actually involves, PrEP and PEP, and the exact words for bringing it up with a new partner.
Privacy-first discovery: protecting yourself and the people you book
What to share, what to keep, which devices and accounts to use, how to handle screening without over-exposing yourself, and why the companion's privacy is your responsibility too.
Recognising pressure and payment scams
The scams that target clients of companions follow a small number of scripts. Here they are, with the tell in each, what to do in the moment, and how to recover if money has already gone.
Before you make first contact
A preparation checklist for the first message: what to read, what to decide, what to have ready, what to keep to yourself, and how to write an enquiry that gets a warm reply.
How to read a profile with confidence
What a trustworthy profile looks like, what a reviewed badge does and does not prove, the signs of a stolen or scam listing, and how to form a judgment before you send a message.
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