Companion etiquette: what good clients do

Companions talk to each other, and the clients they talk about most warmly are not the richest or the most charming. They are the ones who are easy: who read the profile, book cleanly, turn up on time, pay without fuss, respect a "no", and leave when the time is up. None of that is hard. It is just rarely written down. This is the list.

Before you book

Read the profile. All of it. The rates, the booking process, the screening requirements, what is and is not offered. Most of the friction in this work comes from clients who skipped this step.

Contact her the way she asks. If the profile says message, message. If it gives hours for replies, respect them. Do not call an unlisted number, and do not find her on a personal social account.

Write one good message. Your name, what you want to book (day, time, length, where), confirmation that you have read and accept her rates and deposit, and your screening details. Then wait. See the first-timer's guide for a template.

Do not negotiate. Rates are not an opening bid. Asking for a discount, a "quick" booking under the minimum, or a "trial" marks you as someone who does not value her time, and the answer will be no.

Do not ask explicit questions. Her profile says what she offers. Detailed questions about acts before you have met are at best tedious and at worst evidence of someone she should not see.

Provide screening information promptly and completely. It is how she stays safe, and professionals treat your details as confidentially as you expect. Refusing it ends the conversation.

Pay the deposit when asked, by the method she names. Then stop messaging until the day before.

The day before and the day of

Confirm briefly. One line, the day before: "Looking forward to tomorrow at 7." That is all.

Be clean. Shower immediately before. Brush your teeth. Trim your nails. Wear clean clothes. Companions mention this more than anything else, which tells you how often it is skipped.

Be sober enough. A drink is fine; arriving drunk or high is not, and most will end the booking and keep the fee.

Be on time. Not early: she may still be getting ready, and an early knock at an incall is unsettling. Not late: the time comes out of your booking, not hers. If you are delayed, message as soon as you know.

For an outcall, be ready. The hotel room booked in your name, the room number sent when she asks for it, nobody else present, the room tidy, and the balance ready.

Payment

Have the balance ready at the start. In the form she stated, in an envelope if cash, placed somewhere visible or handed over in the first minute without being asked. Do not make her raise it, and do not count it out in front of her.

Never short her. "I only brought..." is the oldest trick in the book and companions have heard it a thousand times. Bring the full amount.

Tips are welcome, never expected. If you want to tip, do it at the end, without ceremony. On LuXeel, the Deeper Community lets you tip a creator from your wallet after the fact, which many clients find easier. Rates themselves are explained in the city-by-city costs guide.

During the booking

Start slowly. A drink, a chat, time to settle in. Rushing is the single most common complaint about new clients and the easiest to fix.

Ask, once, politely. If you want something, ask. If the answer is no, that is the end of it. Asking again, pushing, or trying to persuade is where good bookings go bad, and where companions decide not to see someone again.

Her boundaries are set by her. On her profile, and in the room. "No" means no, immediately, every time, without explanation.

Consent runs both ways and runs continuously. Anything either of you wants to stop, stops. You can say no too.

Phones away. Photographing or recording without consent is a criminal offence across Australia, and even asking changes the atmosphere. Keep your phone in your pocket or your bag.

Do not talk about other companions, her "real" job, her "real" name, or her personal life. She will share what she chooses to.

Keep to the time. The booking ends when the clock says. If you would like to extend and she has the time, ask; expect to pay her stated rate for the extra. Do not linger.

Afterwards

Say thank you and go. A short message later saying you had a lovely time is appreciated. Repeated messages, "just checking in", or messages at odd hours are not.

Do not ask for her personal number, to see her "outside work", or whether she "felt it too". The warmth you experienced was real in the room; the relationship is professional, and asking to change that is the fastest way to end it.

Review honestly, where reviews exist. On LuXeel, reviews are verified against a real booking, so they help the next client and reward the companion. Write about the experience, not her body; never include anything that could identify her beyond her working name.

Rebook the same way. Through the stated contact method, with a proper message. Expect screening to be lighter the second time; do not expect it to vanish.

Keep her confidence. Do not share her details, her photos, her real name if you learned it, or anything from the booking. Discretion is the whole basis of the arrangement.

The things that get you declined

Companions keep notes. The behaviours below are the ones that reliably result in "no longer available":

• Haggling, or arriving with less than the agreed fee
• Skipping or faking screening information
• Arriving drunk, high, or unwashed
• Pushing after a "no", or trying to "negotiate" boundaries in the room
• Photographing or recording
• Overstaying, or arguing about the time
• Asking for personal contact, or turning up uninvited
• Being rude to her in messages, or to hotel staff on the way in

None of these is subtle, and all of them are shared.

In one paragraph

Read the profile, write one polite message, screen and pay the deposit without fuss, turn up clean and on time with the full fee ready, relax, ask once and accept the answer, keep your phone away, leave on time, say thank you, review honestly, and keep her confidence. Do that and you are already in the top tier of clients, and the people you book will be glad to see you again.